HA NOI
– Than Thi Dieu was just thirteen when she was sold to brothel,
and then smuggled across the border to China.
The
details of her horrific ordeal are etched on her mind with painful
clarity.
In
1999, Dieu’s kinswoman Than Thi Nhat asked Dieu to accompany
her on a shopping trip to Lang Son Province, on the Chinese border.
Although
her mother refused permission, Dieu ran away to accompany Nhat.
At
the Tan Thanh bordergate, they met Nhat’s daughter, Long.
“Long
brought Nhat and I to a house owned by a women named Lan. The house
was unlike anything I had ever seen. There were many small rooms
separated by wattles. I was confined in one of these rooms,”
Dieu recalled.
Dieu
realized that she was being held in a brothel. She asked Nhat and
Long to help her meet her aunt, who lived nearby.
“Lan
took me to meet a man at a hotel, who she said would help me find
my aunt. She forced me to get in the car with him,” said Dieu.
“The
man’s home was also a brothel. While his family ate dinner,
I climbed the fence… but I was caught and flogged.”
The
man sold Dieu to another brothel owner, who sold Dieu to a Chinese
family.
“This
house looked like a normal country house. At 10pm, I signalled to
an old woman that I wanted to go to the toilet. The woman gave me
a flash-light and a piece of paper.”
Later
that night, Dieu took the flash-light and made her escape.
“I
climbed over a high gate and fell down, hurting my left leg. I hid
many times when I heard a car coming. I was terrified that I would
be caught again.”
The
next morning, Dieu collapsed outside a restaurant.
“The
restaurant owner gave me some food and money. I ate as I had never
eaten before.”
The
owner brought a Vietnamese woman to meet Dieu.
“The
wife cooked me rice, but said she could not afford to give me money
to get home.” Dieu said. “She said I could stay there
but was scared of being tricked again.”
“I
was very lucky when I met two kind Chinese girls, who brought me
to a police station.” said Dieu, “I was returned to
Vietnam with help from the Chinese police.”
Dieu
is just one of 10,400 Vietnamese women known to have been sold across
the Chinese border. In relative terms, she is one of the lucky ones.
Many more such women undoubtedly remain there, unable to escape
back to their homes and families.
Nor
is the problem confined to the Vietnam-China border. The Vietnam
Women’s Union (VNWU) reports that thousands of women between
the ages of 18-40 who have been sold in Cambodia, Thailand, Hong
Kong, Macau, Singapore, and even the United States. These women
have been forced into prostitution, ‘marriage’, or slave
labour.
Nguyen
Thi Bac, deputy chairwoman of the Bac Giang Province Women’s
Union, said that traffickers prey on a community’s most vulnerable
members.
Traffickers
often work on both sides of the border at bus and railway stations,
convincing women to stay at their ‘boarding-houses’,
then selling them to Chinese men or to brothels.
Most
at risk are poor, single women who have no family to warn them against
accepting suspicious economic opportunities from strangers.
One
such victim is 44-year-old Nguyen Thi My.
In
1991, My was struggling to keep her head above water. Her husband
had run away with another woman, leaving her to care for her three-year-old
son. When a friend offered her VND600,000 to carry some goods to
the bordergate, she leapt at the chance.
“You
know, that amount of money was a dream for rural villagers like
me. I agreed immediately.”
In
the care, the man gave My a wet towel and told her to wash her face.
“I
did not know anything after washing my face. When I woke up, I could
hear people speaking a strange language that I did not understand,”
said My.
“Finally,
I realized that I had been sold to a Chinese man.”
Eleven
years later, after four unsuccessful attempts, My finally made it
home.
Women
who do escape often find it difficult to pick up the pieces of their
shattered lives.
Dieu
returned home to discover that her parents had separated: her father
believed her mother had sold Dieu to the traffickers.
For
My, the joy of being reunited with her family will always be marred
by the knowledge that she has missed out on her son’s childhood.
“I
am very sad because my son is illiterate. Without his mother, he
did not go to school.” she said.
Many
women only find their feet again with the help of the Vietnam Women’s
Union.
Nguyen
Thi Xuyen, deputy chairwoman of the Viet Yen Commune branch, said
that the union lends money, finds jobs, and forms groups for women
to share their experiences.
On
the national level, this complex problem demands an equally sophisticated
response.
The
Government has launched sustained educational campaigns to warn
women of the dangers of human trafficking.
At
the forefront of the fight against human commerce is the VNWU. With
help from the UNDP, it is currently trialling a training course
in the notorious trouble-spot of Bac Giang Province.
The
course focuses on the family’s role in preventing trafficking,
and is part of the UN International Agency Project on trafficking
in women and children in the Mekong Sub-region.
The
VNWU also recently made a working visit to China, the first cross-border
initiative on the issue.
Representatives
agreed to co-operate on a range of issues, including policing the
border area, exchanging information, providing special training
for staff in relevant agencies, and improving the repatriation process.
So
far, about 700 women and children have been returned to Vietnam
through the Mong Cai border gate. – VNS
The
story has been sponsored through the media programme ‘Our
Mekong: a Vision Amid Globalisation’, run by the Inter-Press
Service